{"id":905,"date":"2017-06-21T08:55:03","date_gmt":"2017-06-21T08:55:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.scholarshipowl.com\/?p=905"},"modified":"2021-03-24T15:52:42","modified_gmt":"2021-03-24T15:52:42","slug":"make-friends-in-america","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/life-hacks\/make-friends-in-america\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make New Friends at an American Campus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-907\" src=\"https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America.jpg\" alt=\"diverse student making friends in America\" width=\"257\" height=\"171\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America.jpg 848w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-80x53.jpg 80w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-320x213.jpg 320w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-368x245.jpg 368w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-510x340.jpg 510w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-675x450.jpg 675w, https:\/\/scholarshipowl.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Friends-America-750x500.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 257px) 100vw, 257px\" \/>The United States is the world\u2019s leading higher-education destination, but no matter where you&#8217;re from, fitting in at college can be difficult. For the newcomer, America can be a lonely place at first. Even though college is an ideal place to make new friends, international students often struggle to bond with American students.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/17513057.2012.691525\">The Journal of International and Intercultural Communication<\/a> found that approximately 40% of foreign exchange students had no close American friends at all. This was especially true for students from East Asian countries and non-English-speaking countries. \u00a0Furthermore, the study found variation and reported that friendship numbers and satisfaction levels were highest in the South, whereas the New York City metropolitan area was ranked the lowest.<\/p>\n<p>Having a language barrier or being shy are the top reasons foreign students find it difficult to make intercultural friendships. Even though making new friends may seem intimidating, it shouldn\u2019t be. So, if you\u2019re struggling, here are a few tips on how to make friends in your American campus.<\/p>\n<h2>Be Yourself<\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re from a different country with a different culture.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be embarrassed about being different. While your habits may sometimes appear strange, Americans value the display of true personality, opinions, and unique interests. Too often, international students hold back their true personalities since they lack confidence when speaking English. However, Americans won\u2019t judge you on what you say, but instead how you act. Therefore, it\u2019s very important to be yourself. Laugh, smile, be happy, and be different.<\/p>\n<h2>\u2018Break the Ice\u2019<\/h2>\n<p>The definition of this phrase is \u201cto do or say something that makes people feel less shy or nervous in a social situation.\u201d Try to get out and meet new people and make new friends. That&#8217;s the best way to improve your English and experience American culture. Americans value people taking the lead, so introduce yourself to students in your classes as an international student getting to know the culture. Ask questions instead of waiting for them to offer information, and suggest to study or work on a project together.<\/p>\n<h2>Get Involved<\/h2>\n<p>What do you love doing? What are your hobbies? The best and most efficient way to bond with people is through group activities. America\u2019s university campuses offer a large collection of interest and activity groups, organizations, clubs, and sports teams. These are great opportunities to meet others who share your interests. You will be surrounded by like-minded people which will make it easier to bond.<\/p>\n<p>You should also visit your campus Multicultural resources and\/or International Student Unions. They are always welcoming and looking for help. Get to know other international students, as they will likely introduce you to the friends they have made on campus too.<\/p>\n<h2>Overcome the Language Barrier<\/h2>\n<p>If English is your second language, it can make bonding with new friends seem more difficult. Remember, the more speak and practice, the better your English and confidence will get. If you don\u2019t understand what someone is saying or if they are speaking too fast, ask them to speak slowly and repeat themselves.<\/p>\n<h2>Understand Body Language<\/h2>\n<p>Although Americans are generally friendly and open, keep in mind that they usually have larger personal space boundaries than people from other cultures. If you notice people backing up a little while talking to you, don\u2019t step toward them as they most likely feel uncomfortable with the lack of distance between you.<\/p>\n<p>The most common form of greeting between acquaintances in the US is a hand shake. If you get to know someone well enough, a hand shake can sometimes turn into a hug or brief pat on the back or shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>If you attend a campus sporting event, don\u2019t sit quietly off to yourself. Wear clothes showing your school pride and have a good time. Hold up your hands and offer high fives to others around you when the crowd cheers.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t Give Up<\/h2>\n<p>While Americans are usually friendly, making meaningful friendships can be difficult. Be patient, be open minded and be confident!<\/p>\n<p>Thinking of studying in USA? 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